Frequently Asked Questions…..

Q)  How long does each party last?
A)  Usually they are set for 3 hours (unless otherwise stated), but even then a 3 hour party can run anywhere between 2 hours to 4 hours, depending on which party it is and how many attendees there are.  For example a CFNM or a Multi Mistress Play Party is allocated 3 hours unless otherwise advised. A Strap On Party lasts about 3 hours, depending on the number of attendees, and how quickly the Dominas wear them all out.  Chix VIP doubles parties are 2 hours.  Less attendees = shorter party time, because let’s face it, the attendees get worn out… ?

Q)  Which Dominas will be at the parties?
A)  Generally the Dominas who are listed on the Dates page as attending will attend that particular party, however sometimes the complete Domina attendance isn’t finalised until closer to the party date (as in the night before), or there may be an extra Domina attending that is not announced.  Occasionally life does get in the way, but if a Domina or two may need to pull out, we do our best to replace her with an equally fabulous and talented Domme.

Q)  How many Dominas and attendees will be there?
A)  This depends on the party but the targeted maximum ratio of Dominas to attendees is 1:2 to keep it smaller and more intimate (so a Multi Mistress party with three Dominas will usually have a maximum of six attendees).

Q)  Sorry but my little head is doing the thinking for me today, how do I work out how many attendees will attend the event I am interested in attending?
A)  Nobody can predict how many attendees will end up showing up at any given event, but you can figure out for yourself what the maximum number of attendees will be and it’s really quite simple… Go to the event listing on the relevant Dates page. Count how many Dominas are attending. Apply the targeted maximum ratio of Dominas to attendees (which is 1:2) to work out what the maximum number of attendees there may be. (eg: three Dominas will have a maximum attendance of six attendees).  Maybe consider firing the small head, it seems pretty useless compared to the big head! XD

Q)  How do I sign up to attend?
A)  For London and Birmingham parties, please use the ONLINE BOOKING SYSTEM to book yourself in to one of our parties.  Please ensure you know which party you are looking to book, the codes should be easy to understand – BD Event is Beautifully Destroyed, SO is StrapOn, FB is Forced Bi, CS is Chix with Stix, CD is Chix with Dix, CK is Chix with Kix.  For any London or Birmingham Prison Role Play days or Extended Bondage days, please email as instructed.  Contact details to do this can be found on the Contact Page.  For any other Parties outside of London, please check the party listing on the Dates page for how to sign up.

Q)  What time can I start for the Prison Role Play Day, Extended Bondage Day, or Asylum Day?
A)  The Prison RolePlay Day and the Extended Bondage Day are usually held concurrently on the same day, in the same venue but in different rooms, so will usually have similar/same hours. Earlier start times are reserved for those who opt to attend for the full 8-hour day, which can start anytime from 9am-1pm depending on the location. The Asylum Day is usually also incorporated alongside the Prison Role Play Day but is an extra cost, but can also be attended as a stand-alone attendance.  Asylum Day start times are from midday, and once again, longer term attendees will be given priority for the earlier start times. For all these experience days, if you are only attending for 4 hours or less, you will need to be flexible with your start time, and mornings probably won’t be available. You will receive more attention and a better experience when your start time is during the afternoon anyway…

Q)  How do I apply to attend a Prison Role Play Day, or Extended Bondage Day, or a mix of both when they are on the same date?
A) If you wish to attend The Facility Prison RolePlay Day, Lockdown Prison RolePlay Day, or the Extended Bondage Day, please get in touch via email to apply to attend – attendance for these days is not available on the booking system as they require personalisation and therefore they are more complicated. PLEASE send a fresh, new email with the relevant event date in the subject line of the email if you wish to attend either The Facility/Extended Bondage Days, or Lockdown/Extended Bondage Days. This is to keep things simple and easy for us all to follow. If you’d like to attend a mix of Prison Role Play and Extended Bondage that is being held on the same date in the same location, then just use a single email for both and let us know how many hours you’d like to attend each event for.

Q)  What is the dress code?
A)  Unless the party has a specific CFNM or Cross Dressing theme, you will be expected to strip to at least your underwear (so c’mon, ensure yours is clean and lacking in holes!) or you may bring an outfit of your choice.  At our Multi-Mistress Play Parties you may attend naked if you wish, depending on the venue – sometimes venues have to abide by their licensing laws.  If CFNM is what you’re into, please speak up at the time of the party, and the hosts will let you know if that is appropriate for the venue.

Q)  Is it ok if I’m a complete newbie?
A)  Why wouldn’t it be?  ABSOLUTELY YES!  Of course it is, we encourage this!  And well done for taking this first step.  Take a look at our Newbies page if you need some reassurance, the Dominas look forward to giving you a lovely introduction to a wonderful new world…. Welcome to the dark side!

Q)  Would it be better to attend a strapon party first, or would a strapon session be better to do first?
A)  This all depends on what sort of experience you’re looking for.  If your aim is to achieve assgasms but you’ve never had them before, then it’s best to book a Newbies Pegging Session first so that you can be activated, which will maximise your enjoyment for the party.  If you’re a seasoned assgasm afficionado or just looking to sample strapon and have some fun with different Dominas present, then a party is ideal for that, but please note – if you’ve never had them, the Dominas do not guarantee you will experience your first assgasms during a party as it’s a completely different set up compared to a one-on-one session.

Q)  Does my age impact my attendance at your parties?
A)  Short answer = NO!  At previous parties we have had attendees varying in age from 19 to 94, as long as you can provide proof if requested, we do not discriminate based on age (strictly over 18 though), nor on colour, culture, country of origin, sexual orientation, level of experience, any disability, or anything else…..

Q)  Where will the party be held?
A)  This is entirely dependent upon each individual party and the number of attendees.  Non-specific venue details for each party can usually be found on the Dates page, however most party venues are not confirmed until a clear indication of numbers is available (usually only a few days before the party).  We are unable to predict attendance numbers – our crystal ball is broken…

Q)  When will I be sent the address?
A)  Address, directions and any other instructions are usually sent out the evening prior to the day of the event, and only to those who have paid in advance.  Sometimes they are sent out two days before, or when ever the event is fully booked.

Q) What happens during a party?
A)  That depends completely on which type of party is taking place.  Generally there is some social time at the start as the Dominas need to get to know the attendees, familiarise themselves with the attendees’ limits/boundaries, as well as any medical or physical limitations that may restrict potential play.  The play and/or games commence once everyone is comfortably informed and warmed up, and towards the end of the time, some play requests may be indulged.  Before you know it, time is up and you’ll wish you had longer to play!

Q)  What sort of play is there with the Dominas at the party?
A)  How long is a piece of string?  Realistically, unless the party is themed (eg a strap-on party), then if there is some type of play that you like, and it is within the attending Dominas personal limits and available equipment, then there is a good chance of it happening.  Each party is as different as the attending Dominas and attendees are, because each kinkster has their own personal preference.

Q)  Can I bring some of my own toys?
A)  Of course you can – and we encourage this!  Feel free to bring any personal tools, toys or equipment that you may like to use at the party – just remember to take them with you at the end of the party.

Q)  Can I wear a mask?
A)  Yes of course!  If you have one then simply bring it along.  Masks are not supplied by Domina Parties, you will need to bring your own.  A mask probably isn’t necessary though, remember you’re all in the same boat here, but if it’s a fetish of yours then absolutely go for it!

Q)  Can I intimately touch or grope the Dominas at these parties?
A)  No, absolutely not – anyone caught non-consensually touching or groping the Dominas will immediately be ejected from the event, and blacklisted.  Don’t be a sex pest or a predator…  You have been warned!

Q)  What happens if I don’t like an activity that I’m allocated, what can I do?
A)  All play is strictly kept within each submissives’ limits and boundaries, if you are allocated an activity that you know you don’t enjoy all you need to do is communicate this to one of the Dominas so that an alternative activity can be allocated.

Q)  I’ve never played in a group setting before, will I enjoy it?
A)  Everyone is different – some enjoy the comradeship that evolves among a group of submissives and this often happens at our parties, whereas some people aren’t as comfortable to play in front of others.  If you’re unsure, then there probably isn’t a better place to try it out than at a Domina Party or a Fetish Club.  For a list of recommended Fetish Clubs please see our Links pages.  London Lock Up is more about solitary confinement with a bit of play thrown in so could also be a good way to start.

Q)  Will I be forced to service other members of the party without protection, or can I be a cumdump, as per my fantasies?
A)  Not without consent all round.  Safe, sane, consensual……. Respect is paramount.

Q)  What if what I really want to hear (fantasise about) is that you will “force” me to do things, even when I say no….?  Because that’s part of my ultimate fantasy.
A)  You need to communicate this in your initial contact and also in the pre-chat, however we are not here to indulge you by email.  At our parties, everything is consensual, hygienic and safe, and saying the global safe word “RED” stops all play….. Full-stop.

Q)  What about hygiene?
A)  All the Dominas and service slaves involved in our parties take hygiene very seriously.   All equipment is cleaned with hospital grade anti-bacterial wipes and where necessary also sterilised before the party.  During the party each item is cleaned after each use with hospital grade anti-bacterial wipes, and disposables are utilised wherever possible.  Gloves, condoms, anti-bacterial wipes and anti-bacterial hand gel are always provided and used at our parties.

Q)  What about Covid Protocols?
A)  We at Domina Parties take health and safety very seriously, both ours and yours.  Every Domina, helper and attendee is covid tested prior to the event starting.  We do this for a number of reasons, but mainly to assure our attendees that we are doing our best to offer a covid-free (and stress free) environment to play in.  If you object to taking a 15 minute covid test prior to our event start time, then we are very sorry but sadly our events may not be for you…

Q)  Is there photography or filming at Domina Parties?
A)  No, the parties are not filmed UNLESS there is a specific party where it has been advertised as being filmed.  Photography is not allowed at any of the parties EXCEPT where a Domina has the explicit consent of the person in the photo and ONLY to show that person what they look like i.e. when tied in rope – in this instance the photo is then deleted immediately unless the attendee gives explicit consent that it may be kept.  Attendees are not allowed to take photos.

Q)  What is the Cancellation Policy?
A)  The standard cancellation policy has changed, and can be found at the bottom of this page.

Q)  Can I drink during the party?
A)  We endeavour to keep everyone well-hydrated, however alcohol is generally not consumed by attendees during the parties aside of a welcome drink, which is usually for the Dominas.  We aim to play responsibly, so if you are unable to play without alcohol then our parties are unfortunately probably not for you…

Q)  Can I take drugs at the party?
A)  Absolutely not!

Cancellation Policy

Attendance fees are non-refundable.  Cancellation requests received within 7 days of the start time is subject to a charge of the full attendance fee.
Cancellation requests received prior to 7 days before the start time of a party will be given the option to transfer to another party/date.  In the event of the organisers changing or cancelling, a FULL refund will apply.  Refunds may take up to 30 days to process. These policies may be subject to change at any time.

This cancellation policy does not apply to events once they are marked as being FULLY BOOKED – once an event is fully booked, it is taken off the market, and the attendance fee is NOT refundable.  (We will, however, try our best to fill the space and give that attendance fee to the cancelling attendee, but there is no guarantee of this happening).

Cancellations must be received by email from the same email address that the booking was made with.

The attendance fee is non-refundable for events held outside of London.  Extenuating circumstances may warrant a transfer to an alternative date, at the discretion of the organiser.